Bullying is a common experience for many children and adolescents. Surveys indicate that as many as half of all children are bullied at some point during their school years, and at least 10 percent are bullied on a regular basis.
Bullying behavior can be physical or verbal. Boys tend to use physical intimidation or threats, regardless of the gender of their victims. Bullying by girls is more verbal, usually with another girl as the target. Recently, bullying has even been reported in online chat rooms and through e-mail.
Children and adolescents who bully thrive on controlling or dominating others. They have often been victims of physical abuse or bullying themselves. Bullies may also be depressed, angry or upset about events at school or at home.
Children targeted by bullies also tend to fit a particular profile: passive, easily intimidated, or have few friends. Victims may also be smaller or younger, and have a harder time defending themselves.
If you suspect your child is bullying others, it’s important to seek help for him or her as soon as possible. Without intervention, bullying can lead to serious academic, social, emotional and legal difficulties.
If you suspect your child may be a victim of bullying, ask him or her to tell you what’s going on. You can help by providing lots of opportunities to talk with you in an open and honest way.
It’s important to respond in a positive and accepting manner. Let your child know it’s not his or her fault, and that he or she did the right thing by telling you.
If you child becomes withdrawn, depressed or reluctant to go to school, or if you see a decline in school performance, additional consultation or intervention may be required. Seeking professional assistance earlier can lessen the risk of lasting emotional consequences for your child.
Aspenpointe Counseling has child and adolescent licensed professional counselors to help you through this difficult time.
Eligibility Criteria:
Any child who is being bullied or who is the bully. Families are also welcome.
Insurance(s) Accepted:
Self-pay and most private insurances including: UBH/UH, Aetna, Humana, Cigna, Blue Cross, Blue Shield and TRICARE
Hours
Monday - Friday 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. Evenings and weekends upon request.
